A Family Constellation is a therapeutic session —individual or group— where the client chooses representatives (other people in a group, or dolls/objects in an individual session) to embody members of their family system and places them in the space according to an inner image.
Once placed, the representatives begin to perceive sensations, emotions, and impulses to move that reflect with astonishing precision the dynamics of the real system. The Constellator —in this case, Daniela Giraldo— accompanies the movements and, at the appropriate moment, proposes healing phrases or reorders the image to restore broken systemic laws.
The method arises from clinical observation: Hellinger discovered that a group of people with no prior information about the client's family accurately reproduced the feelings, bonds, and dynamics of the real members. He called the space where this occurs a “field” or “knowing field.”
A Constellation does not diagnose problems: it shows the systemic image that sustains the symptom. Healing comes from moving that internal image —sometimes just naming the excluded one, sometimes bowing to a parent, sometimes returning a burden— and allowing the clan's soul to reorder itself.
Clinical Example
A woman asks to work on “my relationship with my mother.” She chooses representatives for herself, her mother, and her maternal grandmother. As they are placed, the grandmother's representative collapses to the floor. A history of violence that the grandmother experienced in her youth and never processed emerges, unbeknownst to the client. Three generations carrying the same burden. The Constellation honors the grandmother's pain and restores her place; the mother and daughter can, for the first time, stand together.
Illustrative case, anonymized and composed from frequent patterns in Family Constellation sessions.
Bibliography
- Love's Orders — Bert Hellinger. Herder, 2001.
- Acknowledging What Is — Bert Hellinger. Herder, 2000.
- No Roots, No Wings — Bertold Ulsamer. Desclée de Brouwer, 2004.
- Trauma, Bonding, and Family Constellations — Franz Ruppert. Herder, 2010.
These books are in the reference library that nourishes Constelando el Origen.
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Related terms
Representative
A person or object that the client places in the space to embody a member of their family system during the constellation.
View detailsKnowing field (morphic field)
Shared information space that allows representatives without prior knowledge to perceive the real dynamic of the family system.
See detailsHealing phrase
A brief, first-person sentence that the client pronounces before a representative to reorder the system. It is not an affirmation: it is a recognition.
See detailsSystemic movement
Internal action or physical gesture that reorders the image of the system during the constellation and releases the blocked dynamic.
See detailsBert Hellinger
German psychotherapist (1925-2019). Founder of Family Constellations and formulator of the orders of love.
View detailsA session that names what hurts
If you recognize this dynamic in your own history, a Family Constellation can reveal where it comes from and what movement brings order to it. Daniela respectfully accompanies each case.
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