Some Constellators —it's not a universal convention but it is frequent in specific schools— use colored ribbons or scarves during the group constellation to identify specific roles or systemic states of the represented member. It is an optional tool that adds a visual dimension to the work.
More frequent conventions (without official standardization; they vary by school):
Red: victims of violence, women in mourning, members wounded by the system. Also vital energy or matrilineal menstrual blood.
Black: excluded from the clan, family secrets, members who died prematurely without grief processing.
White: honored dead, peaceful ancestors, ancestors who 'rest' after the work.
Gold or yellow: revered ancestors, honored figures, spiritual connection.
Green: life, restored flow, offspring.
Blue: spiritual or transcendent dimension, deep peace.
Operational applications: the ribbon is placed on the representative's shoulder or hand, according to the role. When there is systemic movement (an excluded person is reintegrated, a victim receives dignity), the ribbon can be changed —from black to white, from red to gold—. This makes the symbolic change visible to the client and to the group.
Caution: the use of ribbons requires the Constellator to be careful not to turn the work into visual folklore. If the ribbon reinforces contact with the field, it adds value. If it distracts with showmanship, it detracts.
For Constelando: the use or non-use of ribbons is a methodological decision for each Constellator. In individual online sessions, their use is practically unfeasible; in in-person group sessions, they can add value when used judiciously.
Bibliography
- How to Work with Family Constellations — Constellator's Manual — Brigitte Champetier de Ríos. Editorial Grupo Cero, 2010.
- Images of the Soul — Family Constellations and Shamanic Rituals — Daan van Kampenhout. Alma Lepik, 2008.
- Family Constellations — A New Way to Face Life — Bertold Ulsamer. Sirio, 2007.
These books are in the reference library that nourishes Constelando el Origen.
Related terms
Family Constellation
Therapeutic method developed by Bert Hellinger that makes visible the hidden dynamics of the family system through representatives in space.
See entryKnowing field (morphic field)
Shared information space that allows representatives without prior information to perceive the real dynamics of the family system.
See fileGroup circle in Constellation
In a group Constellation, participants who are not representing sit in a circle around the workspace. This circularity has a symbolic and operative function of containing the field.
See fileExecutioner and victim in systemic reading
Profound concept from Hellinger: victims and executioners belong to the system and need to be named. Recognition is not moral approval; it is the restoration of systemic order.
See fileA session that names what hurts
If you recognize this dynamic in your own story, a Family Constellation can reveal where it comes from and what movement brings order to it. Daniela accompanies each case with respect.
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